As we grow in years and experience we tend to believe that we become a different person. We learn lessons; we intend to act in a new way if faced with challenges carrying old prints. But do we indeed change? I believe not. We only change the perception of Self, we change the attitude towards the self. We become more aware of who we are and we become more accepting, more caring of ourselves until we reach the ultimate goal of loving one’s Self. And why self-love looks so impossible? Perhaps because of our very own insecurities- the lack of certainty in this very changing environment we live now. The irony is that namely the lack of certainty brings us back to the search of self. Certainty is not an outside rock, but a knowledge of who we truly are and where we go.